F.A.Q
What do you expect from me before / during a session / how can I prepare?
Take some time to think about what you want to get from our time together, wether you have a specific kink, or a more general curiosity, please share this with me honestly and clearly, I am never judgemental. Telling me about what kinks interest you is great, but explaining to me what you are looking to get out of our session helps me to understand how to best plan our interaction. Before meeting we will establish safe words and I will ask you some things about yourself and we can discuss a plan for the session.
When you arrive I will have you shower before we begin. For sessions including anal play clean yourself properly for the best experience and your own peace of mind, especially if you are newer to bottoming for this type of sex it can help you feel relaxed and able to enjoy it more. If you are uncertain about how to do this have a look at this.
How much time should I book?
If you are looking for one specific activity e.g trying out pegging, a harsh impact / caning, intense NT/ CBT sometimes an hour session can be enough.
For sessions including heavy bondage, latex, medical scenes or wet / messier play I recommend at least two hours.
Do you offer forced bi / cuckolding sessions?
Yes! I love to see people playing together, especially under my direction or with my involvement. I have kinky friends of all persuasions who love to join sessions to help realise all sorts of fantasies. I am also very much an exhibitionist sexually and love teasing and taunting a cuckold or voyeur while I enjoy playing with a partners.
How should I refer to you?
I am most often called Mistress, and I tend to use She/Her pronouns although in some dynamics other titles / names develop. I am happy to be referred to in role play / fantasy specific terms (e.g Nurse, Mommy, Boss, Daddy, Sir.) My session style varies depending on the individual but I would not describe the way I approach Domination as traditional high protocol.
Do you session with women / people of different gender expressions?
I am Queer and very much open to seeing people of any gender identity and love talking about how gender, sexuality and kink interact. My queerness and experience of sexuality influence my approach to my sessions and my genuine understanding of different gender expressions inform my approach to exploring this with those curious about themselves. I will always respect your identity and preferences and create and hold a space to be yourself authentically, without judgement and with understanding and appreciation for you as you want to be seen.
Do you see couples / offer group play sessions?
Yes! I have had some incredible experiences with clients introducing me to other partners of theirs, couples who wanted to explore kink and other group interactions. I love sessions like these! I also love to introduce my clients to my fem subs, and to organise group domination sessions.
May I bring you a gift?
If you would like to bring me something I always really appreciate gifts! I do not have an online wish list, but love if someone gets me something specific to their kink / our session or just for me to enjoy. If you are wondering what I would like some things I love to be gifted are erotic and fetish art prints, books, latex gloves (I am a size M), I use (a lot of) vivshine latex polish and this is always uselful and appreciated, especially if you want to shine me up and worship me at the start of our session.
I also love Gio stockings (size 9) Aesop hand cream, Louboutin make up (red lipstick or red nail varnish)
I also adore when people bring (or make!) me things to use in sessions (floggers, canes, tawse, paddles, gags, unusual toys, stainless steel devices, clamps, implements for NT / CBT... even domestic or other items you have thought of an alternative use for. I admire fellow perverts creativity and love when people share theirs with me.