F.A.Q
What do you expect from me before / during a session / how can I prepare?
Take some time to think about what you want to get from our time together, wether you have a specific kink, or a more general curiosity, please share this with me honestly and clearly, I am never judgemental and even if I dont think I can offer what you are looking for I may know someone who does!
Telling me about what kinks interest you is great, but explaining to me what you are looking to get out of our session helps me to understand how to best plan our interaction. Before meeting we will establish safe words, I will ask you some things about yourself and we can discuss a plan for the session.
When you arrive I will have you shower before we begin. For sessions including anal play clean yourself properly for the best experience and your own peace of mind, especially if you are newer to bottoming for this type of sex it can help you feel relaxed and able to enjoy it more. If you are uncertain about how to do this have a look at this.
How much time should I book?
My preference if for longer sessions of 2 hours plus, however if you are looking for one specific activity e.g trying out anal play, a harsh impact / caning, intense NT/ CBT sometimes an hour session can be enough.
For sessions including heavy bondage, latex, medical scenes or wet / messier play I recommend at least two hours.
Where can I see you?
I have two session spaces in London - my BDSM studio AE or a more domestic setting, apartment AE
Depending on what you are looking for I may suggest which space is most appropriate, I am also happy to travel to you for outcalls. If you are not based in London I am still happy to travel to session within the UK for a minimum session length of 4 hours, or internationally for a minimum session length of 4 hours plus travel and accommodation covered. I also regularly travel to Berlin and can be available to session at my regular rates while I am there - check my availability to see my planned travel dates.
Do you offer forced bi / cuckolding sessions?
Yes! I love to see people playing together, especially under my direction or with my involvement. I have kinky friends of all persuasions who love to join sessions to help realise all sorts of fantasies. I am also very much an exhibitionist sexually and love teasing and taunting a cuckold or voyeur...
How should I refer to you?
I am most often called Mistress, and I tend to use She/Her pronouns although I enjoy gender swapping in play and in some dynamics other titles / names develop. I am happy to be referred to in role play / fantasy specific terms (e.g Nurse, Mommy, Boss, Daddy, Sir.)
Do you session with women / people of different gender expressions?
I am Queer and very much open to seeing people of any gender identity and love talking about how gender, sexuality and kink interact. My queerness and experience of sexuality influence my approach to my sessions and my genuine understanding of different gender expressions inform my approach to exploring this with those curious about themselves. I will always respect your identity and preferences and create and hold a space to be yourself authentically, without judgement and with understanding and appreciation for you as you want to be seen.
Do you see couples / offer group play sessions?
Yes! I have had some incredible experiences with clients introducing me to other partners of theirs, couples who wanted to explore kink and other group interactions. I love to organise group play of all kinds.
May I bring you a gift?
If you would like to bring me something I always really appreciate gifts! I do not have an online wish list, but love if someone gets me something specific to their kink / our session or just for me to enjoy. If you are wondering what I would like some things I love to be gifted are erotic and fetish art prints, books, latex gloves (I am a size M), I use (a lot of) vivshine latex polish and this is always useful and appreciated, especially if you want to shine me up and worship me at the start of our session.
I also love Aesop skin and fragrance products, Louboutin make up (red lipstick or red nail varnish)
I also adore when people bring (or make!) me things to use in sessions (floggers, canes, tawse, paddles, gags, unusual toys, stainless steel devices, clamps, e-stim tools, implements for NT / CBT... even domestic or other items you have thought of an alternative use for. I admire fellow perverts creativity and love when people share theirs with me.
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Do you session in full rubber / do you only session in rubber?
I love to wear latex for play and this tends to be my go to for session outfits - I do consider requests if you have seen me in an outfit you love of have a particular kink regarding clothing, as an aesthetically driven fetishist I enjoy to realise specific fantasies and put looks together, and coordinate outfits with other fetishists. I can wear latex hoods to session in depending on the nature and length of the play / interaction. I also enjoy to session in other fetish wear, lingerie, and love being naked and having my extensive tattoos on show.